Look Around!!!

You know, one of the surest and easiest ways to convince yourself about staying pure until you get married, is just to look around and see what happens when you don't.
People who have had multiple partners seem to have lives that are messed up and don't make sense. They are always looking for something or someone to fill that void in their heart, and they don't really know what they want.
That is because every time you have sex with someone, you take on part of their personality and you give them part of yours. After many partners, they seem to become confused over who they really are.
Stay pure, it's worth its weight in gold.

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Benefits of Abstinence

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Benefits of Abstinence

1. Clear conscience with God.
   
   
2. Peace of mind in your life and future relationships, and marriage.
   
   
3. More self-respect and more respect for each other¹ and respected by other people.
   
   
4. Always remember, in a healthy relationship, respect precedes love.² And premarital sex only throws away your self respect and your partner's.
   
   
5. You enter marriage with a more positive outlook and without carrying emotional baggage.
   
   
6. Personal freedom for both of you and your (future) marriage partner.
   
   
7. Significantly better chance in having more satisfying and more stable marriage.
   
   
8. Longer lasting relationship. Premarital sex surprisingly breaks up more dating couples than any other factor.
   
   
9. No comparing or being compared sexually in marriage. It also means "being free to enjoy maximum sex, maximum leisure, maximum satisfaction, and maximum liberty, in the way God intended" that is in the covenant of marriage.
   
   
10. No worries about pregnancy and STD, and STI.
    
    
11. Less worries about bad reputation.
    
    
12. It's a fact that persons and couples who have premarital sex are more likely to have extramarital affairs as well.
    
    
13. Premarital sex often fools a person into marrying someone who really isn't right for them.
    
    
14. You don't have to put yourself under someone else's mercy not to reject you. It's still a fact, that the more "experienced" guys and girls are generally less desirable and less respected as dating or marriage partners.
    
    
15. Realize there is a 98 percent chance you will never marry the person you date in high school, so it is always better to keep yourself pure for the right person, that is your future wife or husband.

No STD or STI - What a relief!

What a relief to not have to worry about catching STD or STI when you make the decision to abstain from sex.
What a relief to not have to worry about catching diseases that can harm your body permanently!
It just makes sense to wait for marriage, to keep your virginity, to be in control of your body and your life. God wants us to take charge of ourselves, to let Him lead us as to what is best for us.
It works.

But wait, there's more...

Wait, wait, wait, wait.
I hate waiting, yet it is always worth the wait, whatever I wait for.
It's like you appreciate it more when you hold off, whether it be buying a car, saving for a house, saving for a piece of furniture, or being faithful in abstaining from sex until marriage.
Patience is a virtue, possess it if you can, it will take you far in this world.
Be a patient person, be forgiving, be loving, be faithful to yourself.
Keep pure, one day at a time.

Purity Rings Work!

I first heard of purity rings a year ago as I was considering my daughter's 15th birthday.
What a great idea. Just as I have a ring to remember my vows to my wife and to God, a purity ring represents my daughter's vow to herself, me and to God.
Most importantly is the vow to stay sexually pure, or abstinent.
If you make the decision ahead of time, you won't be tempted in the 'heat of the moment.'
Think about it.
I loved the idea so much that I am setting up a website to sell classy purity rings.
Make a vow with yourself today. Stay pure. Be a success to yourself.
Later.

Stay Pure

Stay pure - not only in your relationships and sexual abstinence, but in your mind, in your attitudes, in your emotions, in your thoughts. "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." If you want the best for your life, if you want to be all that you can be, then focus on things that are pure, focus on things that are going to get you where you want to go. If you find yourself feeling worse after talking with someone on a consistent basis, then its time to find another friend. Friends should always lift up and support and understand each other. You should come away feeling better about yourself, life and others.
So go for purity in every area of your life today.
Be the best you can be.

What a bee-aa-utiful day!

Life is great. It's awesome to live with your respect intact. To be glad with the decisions I made today. It's great to be a winner. Abstinence is worth it. Being whole is worth it.
Don't need insurance, just 'in case' something happens.
Don't need to be called 'cheap.'
Just put up with names that losers who don't have self-control call you.
It's worth it. It's worth the wait.
Winners wait.

Life is more than sex

Each one of us has 24 hours to make a difference in our world, in our life, those lives around us and those far away. Use today to the max.
Do something nice for someone. Give out of yourself.
If you focus on giving to others, rather than sexual abstinence or what you don't have, you will be happier.
It's more blessed to give, than receive.
Have a great day.

Abstinence Abstinence Abstinence

Why focus on what you can't have?
Focus on ALL the amazing things you can have in life.
Sex isn't everything. Actually, I believe we live in an overly sex crazed society.
Sexual abstinence is as good as gossip abstinence, as good as anger abstinence.
But anyway, focus on what you can do right now.

It's a new day

The cool thing about the sun coming up every day, is that it reminds us that we, too, can start a new day every day. Even if yesterday was a stinker, all that can change today. Think of today as a new slate, a new canvas with which to paint a new picture, a new portrait.
Paint a new day.
Approach each situation with new eyes.
Even if you failed yesterday miserably, forget it, and start again.
You can do it.

What do you want to live with?

Notice the title of this blog is not, "WHO do you want to live with, but WHAT."
Who do you want to live with sounds all exciting in the heat of the moment, sounds logical, e.g. "We can halve the rent, not have to travel to see each other, etc.," but the end result is regret. "Try before you buy doesn't work because a relationship has to be based on commitment, not a try.
Anyway, coming back to what do you want to live with. Most relationships based on WHO end up living with regret. Regret is a long-term pain that is just not worth it.
Live with freedom instead.
Live knowing that YOU made the right decision, not someone else's right decision for them.
Be a success to you.

It's definitely worth the wait!

Isn't it funny that just a few years ago, staying sexually pure was "out of fashion" and "old hat." Of course, whatever you sow you reap. Now, with an epidemic of sexual diseases, as well as the massive array of social and personal problems, people are rethinking. Back to the basics.

My desire with this blog is not to beat up people or ideas, but to encourage others about the blessings and benefits of staying pure until you find just the right person.
It's about being a success personally. Doing right for yourself. Being a winner internally, and then being able to live each day knowing that YOU DID IT. Every little victory in our lives makes us stronger as a person, and happier - knowing that we are doing the right thing by ourselves, and not just letting friends or popular opinion lead us. It is truly worth it.

If you are considering keeping yourself pure, let me say it is definitely worth it. You'll be glad you did - for the rest of your life!